Gay or Straight, Don’t Take Abuse

Domestic violence happens. Here’s our advice.

male domestic violenceDomestic violence happens in every type of relationship whether you’re lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans or anything in-between, violence happens and you shouldn’t put up with it.

Statistics published by Women’s Aid suggest that 1 in 4 heterosexual relationships will experience domestic violence at some point. Statistics like these have prompted surveys being cast among the LGBT community looking into domestic violence within same sex relationships. The results from the survey showed that as many as 1 in 4 LGBT relationships will experience some form of violence, exactly the same as heterosexual statistics.

Stopping Violence

If you are suffering from domestic violence or abuse there are a number of charities that will offer you support and help the violence stop.

If you are a woman in an abusive relationship then both Refuge and Womensaid are great charities to get in contact with. Refuge and Womensaid work together to provide a ’24 hour National domestic violence helpline’ phone on 0808 2000 247 or email

If you are a man who is in an abusive relationship then you can contact mensadviceline on 0808 801 0327 or email at You could also contact Mankind national helpline on 01823 334244.

There is also a charity called Broken Rainbow that aim to help members of the the LGBT community who suffer from domestic violence. They are dedicated to bringing taboo issues like same sex domestic violence out into the open, raising awareness, and offering help and support to those whose lives have been affected by domestic violence or domestic abuse.

You can contact Broken Rainbow on 0300 999 5428 or fill out their contact form and they will get back to you.

If you feel your life is in danger or feel you are at immediate risk of harm then do not hesitate – call the police. Gay or straight, don’t take abuse. Never put up with domestic violence!

Help the Helpers

Every organisation we have listed are official UK charities and require donations and volunteers to help operate, I would urge everyone to donate to these charities as they all do good work and are there for us if we ever need them.

Donate to Refuge

Donate to Womensaid

Donate to Mankind

Volunteer at Refuge

Volunteer at Womensaid

Volunteer at Mankind

Corby Taylor